You don’t have to be overly macho. You don’t have to be over-complimentary. Gain her respect. And that’s treating her as an equal. Don’t bullshit her. Treat her as a human being. Treat her as you would treat yourself. As soon as you have that respect from her, she’ll treat you with the same respect that you show. Then you fuck the shit out of her.
In an ideal world, yeah. And I’m that head-in-the-clouds idealist, too, with a little cynicism sprinkled in for good measure, of course. Or so I would like to believe.
But, as happens all too often, if you’re not macho you’re a pussy. If you’re not over-complimentary you’re a dick. If you treat her as an equal you’re a pushover. If you don’t bullshit you get bullshitted. And giving respect and treating someone like a human being rarely means you get that same respect and humanity returned, no matter what their gender in relation to your own. And that last part sounds great. If only it weren’t so oft reported that many women prefer things like chocolate over sex.
Undoubtedly, all of this has to be taken with a grain of salt. This quote was spoken by a porn star and I found it on This Recording by way of a blog called Synthetic Pubes. And anyway what the hell do I know.
That’s All Well and Good But
In an ideal world, yeah. And I’m that head-in-the-clouds idealist, too, with a little cynicism sprinkled in for good measure, of course. Or so I would like to believe.
But, as happens all too often, if you’re not macho you’re a pussy. If you’re not over-complimentary you’re a dick. If you treat her as an equal you’re a pushover. If you don’t bullshit you get bullshitted. And giving respect and treating someone like a human being rarely means you get that same respect and humanity returned, no matter what their gender in relation to your own. And that last part sounds great. If only it weren’t so oft reported that many women prefer things like chocolate over sex.
Undoubtedly, all of this has to be taken with a grain of salt. This quote was spoken by a porn star and I found it on This Recording by way of a blog called Synthetic Pubes. And anyway what the hell do I know.